Almost every relationship has encountered a dry spell when it comes to sex. Things are just not as hot during that period, and maybe you don’t feel the same amount of passion. However, this is not something you should be worried about since it is quite normal, and happens to everyone. There are some easy tricks you can use, and one of those is sharing your sexual fantasies, which can spice things up a bit. So, here is how to do it.
Get to know your fantasies first
Even in the 21st century, a lot of us have trouble accepting certain sexual fantasies, thinking they are too weird or taboo. In most cases, it is just our brain overthinking, because most of those are pretty normal, healthy, and can be a lot of fun if both partners are into it. The best thing you can do, before even talking about it, is getting to know your fantasies. Search the internet, forums, and chat rooms, or even talk to a sexual expert, who will be able to tell you more about it. This will help you be open when the time comes to share it and can help you find the best way to talk to your partner.
Be open, but don’t scare them
Honesty is a good policy in any relationship, especially when it comes to sex. It is very healthy to share your fantasies with your partner, so don’t shy away from doing that. Sit down, have an open conversation because chances are you both have things you want to share. However, make sure you take a safe, and respective approach because you don’t want to scare them. Make your partner feel loved, and cared for, and don’t push their limits.
Make some suggestions
Topics like this can become quite sensitive, and unless you are completely open, your partner can be confused. This is why you should make concrete suggestions if there is something you would like to try. The most common idea is fun sex toys that can please both partners. They are very versatile, so you can be sure that you and your partner will be able to find something you both like. The key is to be on the same page, and want to try similar things. If you are an open person, you can browse the stores together and see what they offer. However, if you are a bit shy, you can always go online, check out what is on the market, and buy something there.
Try it in practice
You will be able to try a lot of your fantasies, but the key is to do it slowly. One of the most common ones is sex with multiple people. If you are not ready to do it, you can try talking about it in the bedroom, to create an atmosphere that is innocent enough, yet opens some doors. Another one is role play, which is a fun and interesting way to get to know each other, and what you like. The mere process of buying costumes and props can be exciting on its own, not to mention the act. Another one, which can be pretty delicate is rough sex, which for everyone means different things. This is why you should set the boundaries with your partner, and never go past them.
Sexual fantasies are a playful way of improving your relationship when things start to get shaky in the bedroom, but it is also a perfect way to show your other, wilder side, creativity, and sensuality that only your partner should see. So, be imaginative, open, and respect each other, and we are sure you will enjoy yourselves endlessly.